Sunday, April 29, 2007

Waiting for happiness

Waiting for happiness

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'ii be more content when they are. 

After that, we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are out of the stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice vacation, or when we retire. 

The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when? 

Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with… ad remember that time waits for no one. 

So, stop waiting

ü  until your car or home is paid off

ü  until you get a new car or home

ü  until your kids leave the house

ü  until you go back to school

ü  until you lose 10 pounds

ü  until you gain ten pounds

ü  until you finish school

ü  until you get a divorce

ü  until you get married

ü  until you have kids

ü  until you retire

ü  until summer

ü  until spring

ü  until winter

ü  until fall

ü  until you die

There is no better time than right now to be happy.

Remember: Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

Friday, April 20, 2007

Quotes you Quote 'em

One of the most adventurous things left us is to go to bed. For no one can lay a hand on our dreams.
 
Do not look back. Do not dream about the future either. Your duty, your reward, your destiny are here and right now.
 
There is nothing so easy to learn as experience and nothing so hard to apply.
 
Everything has been said before, but since nobody listens we have to keep going back and beginning all over again.
 
Doing what's right is not the problem. It is knowing what is right.
 
A man who fears suffering is already suffering from what he fears.
 
You must be the change you wish to see in the world.
 
All who have accomplished great things have had a great aim, have fixed their gaze on a goal which was high, one which sometimes seemed impossible.
 
Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back, a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country.
 
Power Principle : If you aren't making mistakes, you aren't making progress!
 
What it takes to discourage you, is in direct correlation to the amount of belief you have in yourself.
 
Love, by reason of its passion, destroys the inbetween which relates us to and separates us from the other.